A few weeks ago, I met a woman that seriously changed my perspective. It was one of those chance encounters that I believe was meant to happen for a reason.
This woman had been involved in the same tragedy that I had been caught up in. As I shared my story, I quickly realized that hers was much more challenging. Her sister had lost her young baby to a man on drugs.
Once she told me this, I was lost for words.
How does one even comprehend that situation? How do you not choose fear? How do you choose not to hate? These were the questions I pondered afterward.
Here’s why you should choose love:
1. Love conquers fear
As humans, the easiest decision we can make is to choose love. Love destroys our fear and helps us see a deeper meaning in everything that happens in life.
Love is the ever-conquering force in our life that will happen if we let it.
When you’re surrounded by love, it’s impossible to be conquered by the crippling disease that is fear.
Love restarts the heart like a defibrillator. Fear causes a heart attack that can kill you if you let it.
Always choose love over fear.
2. Everything happens for a reason
When this young girls sister lost her baby, she chose to believe that it was meant to happen for a reason. She chose to believe that the loss of life would mean something far greater than death itself.
This opinion was the result of love being the only answer she could comprehend.
After the tragedy, her community got around her and showed her more love than she had ever known. The death of her nephew started her entire family on a different path.
While they couldn’t control the circumstances of the young baby’s death, what they could control was love.
They allowed the love that everybody showed them to take them to an entirely different level. Some days were good and other days were a nightmare.
Through it all, they chose to believe in love. Love is nothing more than a belief. It can only enter your life when you believe it exists.
You must be accepting and you have to give love at the same time. They are the rules of the love game.
3. Think love not hate
When this tragic event occurred, it would have been so easy to hate the man hooked on drugs who caused this young baby to die.
This girl taught me that hate has no place in the healing process. As a matter of fact, hate has no place in our lives.
Feelings of hate can cause us to go into a downward spiral. This spiral involves us becoming very selfish and only focusing on our own needs. From this place, we can’t do the inner work required to come back from adversity.
Train your brain to always assume love as the default reason for everything.
Spending our precious energy and time on this planet hating others for things we can’t control, will block us from our dreams.
Hate will transport us to a land far far away that resembles hell. Hell is where your nightmares come true, your fears are born and the person you become is something you despise for eternity.
4. Love is the best feeling in the world
There are lots of types of love but no matter what; love is the best feeling in the world.
When you choose love your life seems extraordinary. You feel like you are on cloud nine and nothing can stop you. Love helps you to connect with your fellow human beings on an entirely different level.
Your success in life compounds because love attracts everything you could ever want in your life. You can’t be pissed off at the world when love is your default choice.
Love is what brings us closer together. Love is what creates human life through the coming together of a man and women. Love is what lights us up and fuels our intuition. Seek out love and you’ll know what it feels like to be invincible.
If the worst happens, and a young baby close to you is killed, you’ll have all the answers.
5. Choose love by giving love
The best gift you can give while you’re alive is love. It costs nothing, but it takes every part of you to give. If a tragedy like the one described above occurs, you have the opportunity to give love.
When you do so, and you go through a difficult time, love finds its way back into your life.
Choosing love is the beginner level: giving love is the expert level.
There are so many ways to give love. You could:
- Hug someone
- Do something nice for someone
- Write something beautiful to someone
- Be there for someone who is going through a tough time
- Smile at someone who looks down
The list is endless. Love is endless. Your capacity to give love is endless. What comes into your life can also be endless when you choose love. Think about that for a minute.
6. Love can cause a deranged man or women to see the light
If you talked to a terrorist and told them that you loved them, what would happen? While I don’t know for sure, what I do know is that there is a possibility you could interrupt their pattern.
Part of the reason they do what they do is that they haven’t felt love.
Because they lack love in their life, they have adopted a set of false beliefs in the hope that this will fill the void they feel, due to the lack of love they’ve experienced.
Terrorists, criminals and people on drugs, all have one thing in common: they need to be shown what love is so they can conquer the fear that’s been controlling their life – the fear that’s driven them to madness and to harm people”
It’s time to wake up and stand for love. It’s what we were born to do. It takes no effort when we try it.
Love can save us from just about anything. Love is about understanding that we are all on the same mission and that ultimately we are all part of the same cause and the same existence.
When you understand the idea of love, your consciousness goes to another level. People may begin to think that you’ve transcended their reality and that you have loads of wisdom.
What’s really happened is that you’ve discovered the most powerful force on Earth: LOVE.