Life was never meant to be complicated though we have made it so with our choice of habits and lifestyle. However, we can simplify everything by implementing some small changes in our daily lives.
You need to take small but gradually and well intended baby steps on a daily basis and you will notice a positive change in your mood and state of mind.
We have gathered some of the most common things people do on a daily basis that complicates their lives.
So to enjoy life and make it less complicated, start by removing these bad habits one by one, and you can look forward to a brighter and more relaxed days ahead.
1. Avoid the trap of perpetual PERFECTIONIST
Everybody makes mistakes, and that is alright. Doing your best to be perfect all the time will increase your stress levels, and your life will pass you by while you try to attain the unattainable.
All mistakes aren’t that bad, instead you should learn to embrace them as normal part of our existence, and they will teach you a lot.
So accepting that you will never be completely flawless is a step in the right direction and will help you start enjoying every single day.
Just be happy that you are here in this moment and seize the day.
2. Creating and beating yourself with UNREALISTIC deadlines for your goals
Knowing what you want from your life is very important. So is setting goals goes along with it.
However, it is important to realise that you may not achieve all your goals within the set time frame. This should not signal the end of the world.
Life is unpredictable, and anything can happen in the meantime. Circumstances change and not reaching your goals by a certain date doesn’t mean you will never get there.
Approach things casually and work towards your dreams without putting undue pressure on yourself. More so do not compare your goal achievement to someone else.
3. Constant PROCRASTINATION
Nothing lightens up the human spirit and boost morale like being productive in life. Yes, we all deserve some downtime, but if you can’t stop being lazy, you might complicate your life a lot more than you think.
So find an activity that makes you happy, and dive straight into it. Do not push it forward to a future date. If you love drawing, grab that pen and pencil, and start creating.
You will see improvements in your mood almost instantly, and after some time, your life will feel quite fulfilled. Also, you can turn your hobby into an actual career.
4. Saying YES to EVERYTHING
Agreeing to everything even though you don’t feel like doing a particular task at the moment can complicate your life and lead to higher amounts of stress and reduced productivity.
After all, you are saying yes to things that will most certainly put more pressure on you.
So learn how to say no and focus on your own work or hobbies. It is okay to be selfish and create the schedule you will actually enjoy and look forward to.
Never feel obliged to say yes to every request thrown your way in life.
5. Worrying about FUTURE
No amount of worry can change or alter the future. Focusing on your present should be your primary goal because you simply cannot see far away in the future.
So don’t waste your precious energy trying to predict what can happen, and think about you, right now, in this moment.
Make the best of it, work hard, and stay positive. This will surely lead to a positive outcome. Learn to live and be present in the moment
6. Spending money RECKLESSLY
Many of us have spent money on things we don’t really need.
So before you grab your credit card, ask yourself: Do you really need that specific item? Are you really going to use it?
This will save you a lot of money because the chances are you already have a closet full of clothes or a perfectly fine iPad which will be in working conditions for years to come.
There might be some more important expenses for which you need that money and saving it right now can help you out in the long run.
7. Longing for the PAST
In order to have a bright future, you need to stop thinking about the past. We all made mistakes and took some wrong turns, but there is nothing we can do about it. So the best thing you can actually do right now is to accept it and move on.
You can’t go back in time, but you will still have plenty of opportunities to grow and learn. So embrace your past self and focus on the future.
View your past experiences as valuable lessons, and you will thrive.
The above seven traps can’t all be handled in a single day, instead purpose to tackle one thing at a time and soon you will start seeing a visible and positive change in the quality of your life. Take it step by step and see how it goes.